Sex & marriage #483Z, celibacy at home, pen & ink drawing with pencil sketch, by artist, and Veteran, Stephen F. Condren, of Condren Galleries, a Fine Arts Gallery. Prints & Scans Of This Drawing #483Z ~ Order Here.
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Sex & Marriage #483Z
Celibacy At Home
Sex in marriage is a myth, better yet, a mirage, because there is none. Any sex that there is between married couples, gay or straight, is strictly mechanical, because sex needs change. As time passes the sexual appetite between the married couple dissipates, because this is natural. When you enter into marriage you should know from the start that the sexual drive between you and your mate with vanish over time. Many couples conjure up games, and tricks to keep sexual appetite “alive” but it does not work.
Sex That Works
The best sex is the heated, erotic sex between strangers, or partners that you know for the sake of the sexual encounter, and nothing more, because that brings in the element of excitement. This is why there are so many sexual affairs, because they are bored with their partner. The hottest, and most satisfying sex is that between two or more people that get together solely for the purpose of the sexual encounter, and then reschedule a similar event with a different partner, because that feeds into the need for new encounters.
Beauty Of Sex
The beauty of sex is the sexual appetite that you have for each other, because that is sexually, and psychologically satisfying. When you pay for sex you do not feel the same, because you know that the other person could care less about you. It is psychologically a thrill to be sought after by a hot man or woman, because nothing is more exciting.
Trauma
However, the effect of setting up sexual encounters with other people outside of the marriage vows ruptures the marriage. Marriage is a social contract, and not a love based relationship, because both parties have legal, and social obligations codified with a vow. In a loved based relationship there are no obligations, and no vows.
Solution
Seek the kind of relationships, and social settings that work best for your life. One shoe does not fit all, because we are all different. Everything has it’s price, because that is the rule of Nature. If you want sex in your union then make it an open marriage, because it will give you a strong, and healthy sex life. However, the price that you will pay is a very weak interpersonal relationship with your partner, because this is the rule of Nature.
Bottom Line
One element has to be sacrificed to support another element, because this is the rule of Nature. Thus, it you want a strong interpersonal marriage, keep sex out, because the two do not mix. If you want more sex, then let the interpersonal relationship become a contract, because you can choose to follow the terms of the contract. This goes for any element that you desire in your marriage, money, work, drugs, and so on, because like water, one element displaces the other.
Pencil Drawing
In my drawing above you can see the pencil sketch if you look closely, because this is the beginning of the work of art. The sketch is used as a guideline for the pen & ink. I do not trace over, or follow with exacting detail, the pencil drawing, because that would be a chain to me. Rather, I use the pencil sketch merely as a guide, like an opera prompter, because I know the lines but not the exact cue.
Pen & Ink Drawings With Prints & Scans
The pen & ink drawing above is a handsome rendering, because I took my time to carefully execute the path for the ink pen.
Prints & Scans Of This Drawing #483Z ~ Order Here.
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Sex & Religion #483Z, celibacy at home, pen & ink drawing of a naked young man standing, offering prints & scans, by artist Stephen F. Condren of Condren Galleries.
Artist Stephen F. Condren Of Condren Galleries, A Fine Arts Gallery
Stephen F. Condren ~ Artist
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